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"Success is never final and failure never fatal, it is the Courage that counts"

The title is a quote by John Wooden.  These words were written on one of the walls of my school. There were many such quotes written in my school but I will always remember This one. But why you may ask?  Because as a kid I was not able to understand the meaning it held. I used to think that success and for that matter failure as well was final, how can it be not? Because what's done is done (and what's won is won). In my mind I would think of examples where success as well as failure was final. I would recount the classes I passed, the cricket and football matches I won and lost etc. to validate my opinion. So I would read and reject the statement everytime I crossed that wall. But as I grew up and noticed how life works (or I should say how we humans work) I realized that life is a kind of never ending journey and we tend to move from one thing to another, one place to another, and from one goal to another. It does not matter if we successfully achieved it or failed at it mis
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How to WORK SMART AND SUCCEED in the New Year (2020)

We are very close to saying a  Goodbye to the year 2019 and Welcome 2020 with new Hopes, new Dreams, new Goals , and many of us with 'new' New Year Resolutions . But the bitter truth is that Most people do not stick to these resolutions for even a week. Very Few are able to stick and make their goals and dreams a reality. WHY DO PEOPLE FAIL? In reality, what you want to do or achieve, or how big it is, is Not the Problem. Lack of Motivation is also Not the Cause. But merely not knowing How To Work Smart is the reason why most people Fail to keep up with their resolutions and achieve their Goals. HOW TO WORK SMART THEN? Here are some ways to Work Smart and Achieve your Goals easily, effortlessly, and quickly. Clarity of Outcome : Be very clear about  'what exactly do you want to accomplish?'. Do a SWOT Analysis before you begin. (Google it, if need be). Planning : Plan your course of action. Priortize : Know your priorities and work accordingly.

A MISSED TRAIN

A few days ago, I was at the Railway Station to see off my wife, she was traveling to Kushinagar (Gorakhpur) to attend the wedding of a friend. It was time for the train to depart, so I stepped down the train asking her to take care and enjoy herself. As I was waving her a good bye, I heared some voices "STOP!! PLEASE STOP!!" As I looked to my left, I saw a couple carrying their luggage and a baby, running to catch the train, which was now moving. They asked the guard to stop the train but it was too late and the train left the station. They stood there completely distraught, the agony on their face was clearly visible. Had they been a minute earlier, they could have comfortably caught the train. Some people on the platform came to them and started consoling the couple. Some were saying "The guard should have stopped the train", while others said "they don't care about the passengers". I also went ahead and said "It's (the train) gone n

How To Be HAPPY NOW

How To Be HAPPY NOW If you have ever seen a new born baby closely, You would have noticed that they smile and giggle without any cause while sleeping. I noticed it a few years back, when my sister was blessed with a baby boy (Sahas). It was so amazing to see him for the first time. As I was watching him sleeping peacefully, wrapped warmly in a soft and cozy blanket, he suddenly started smiling and giggling, while still sleeping. It was an amazing experience. While I watched him, I wondered, what is it that he is Happy about?, what is making him laugh?, what could be the reason for his Happiness? It made me think that, Do we really need some reason to Be Happy ? As children, we live happily, enjoying the little moments and joys of life. We are Happy running around, dancing to our own tunes and playing the street games etc. But, as we grow up, we are supposed to get "serious" and act "responsibly". It is here that we start loosi